Love Desires victimised ....

Where do you work,beta?How much do you earn?Is it in rupees or dollars?Is it a public firm?You have a company quarter?You can cook.right? Bla!Bla!Bla!A sea of questions as if giving an interview of a  lifetime.Isn't it irking or is it a process through which every man and woman has to go through.Well,after watching Dostana and hearing many news related to homosexuality,i thought their may be some exceptions.Exceptions is a necessary ingredient in every subject in discussion.                                             

Love is a natural disaster which brings along sweet catastrophe and fun follows. and marriage with funny techniques is a funny way to show the world,the unity of two souls till eternity.

Love         respect             admire       faith          belief 

are a  few  masalas for any relationship to grow and flourish. Starting  from friendship to some serious relationship like   marriage gives shapes to an individual's life. His status and stature is determined by his behaviour and the faithfulness with which he serves his society.Altogether we are body with brain and beauty bounded in social chains ,and if break this shackles of limitedness , then we are ought to be called as an anomie.Nonetheless,disregarding society and its divine rules brings disrepect to an individual and his family.

Let us take a burning example : Marriage.  In India, matchmaking for marriage has a long and established history. In older days, family purohits or pandits used to suggest suitable match for the children. They used to meet parents, relatives and bride and groom to make sure that the match is a suitable one. On top of it, astrological compatibility was given a main preference. If the kundlis match, then only marriage used to take place.The role of beautician and milkman bringing suggestions about prospective brides and grooms to the interested families was equally important.Well,nothing has changed much.Today such marriage bureau not only exist outside the family boundaries but also inside in the form of brothers,sisters,etc.Let us not also forget about the precious matrimonial sites doing the job a lot easier.This kind of marriage taken through a zillion  discussions,asking the god and the world for a perfect match,arranging meetings ;without taking into account the emotions of the bride or the groom ;meeting it as a personal responsibilty and sometimes as a burden does no personal good.It is a man-constructed foundation for supporting two souls to make them fall in love.And,see the human psychology ,most of us do fall in love after marriage.May be it was arranged but it becomes love after all.This is the beauty of  the extent of human adaptation for which the society must thank.Sadly many couple do not fall in love after marriage.Their marriage becomes just a set of rules.

What is LOVE...  Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth.  Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
                                                                             Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is blind.And because of the complex and abstract nature of love,discourse on love is commonly reduced to a thought terminating cliche.Lifton has rightly said,
"The language of the totalist environment is characterized by the thought-terminating cliché. The most far-reaching and complex of human problems are compressed into brief, highly reductive, definitive-sounding phrases, easily memorized and easily expressed. These become the start and finish of any ideological analysis.".
                                           Love happens and when it happens it never stops to ask the consent of family or society.The power of love brings hope,belief,strength and respect. Heart says,If Love happens ,Make it happen ,Break all barriers, Live live and feel Love.

 Just a side 

To an anguished street

Criticised

For what we believe

If we hide 

May be we can make it through this

Is it fair 

To be burned away/

Is it fair

That we live this way?

Victimised

For a life we did'nt ask for

                                                                                                                             TATU
                                                                                                 (not written for contest)